NefMoto

hi
i want to get start and do some small tunes in my car
its a Seat Leon 2003 1.8t 180hp
my ecu is 06A906032HN.

i tried to flash the file via OBD but i recieved this massage:
validation failed, ECU reports RequstUpload service is not supported. RequstUpload may have been disabled by aftermarket engine software.
100% complete.
validating memory layout failed.
validation did not complete.
restorin windows sleep mode.

the layout i choose was 29F800

if i will do a bench flash i could read the file ?
after i read the file what software should i use ?
TunerPro ? Winols ?
i download original BIN file of 06a906032HN and play with it in Winols
where can i find the primery fuel map ? ignition map ? cold start ? REV limitter, etc... ?
with the tuner Pro its much easy but i need an XDF Definition and i dont know how to do it.

tnx all for the help

Joseph