here is the latest log. im thinking i may need to increase kfmiop and kfmirl
Absolutely the last thing you should do. I have zero idea why you think this is at all the case.
ps_w is crazy low, so either your MAF is horribly underscaled or you have a gigantic post maf pre turbo inlet leak.
Spool is incredibly lazy for a K04. Even if we disregard that:
Your LDRXN is still too low, and DIMX is still way too high, or Q2 is way too low, or both.
The whole log is an utter mess, from start to finish.
It isn't clear at all you understand anything from the tuning page, let alone the FR, especially if you think (for some bizarre reason) KFMIRL and IOP have anything to do with the problems you're seeing.