Overlooked this topic:
http://nefariousmotorsports.com/forum/index.php?topic=12466.0title=Will give the suggestions a try.
EDIT: no luck when unplugging the cluster (can you unplug it in the ECU box?, I removed the cluster but it's a hassle)
Do I disconnect the k-line that's currently connected to the ECU before running a seperate k-line cable?
Nefmoto gives the "Disconnecting because no response was received for the Tester Present message." error when it disconnects (can also hear a second beep coming from the cluster).
The car is a European PFL S4.