MAFless is alpha-n, not speed density on these ECUs. You are quite literally never going to get this car running correctly w/o going standalone or doing a complete rewrite of the entire load path in ASM patches.
It actually works quite well, i don't understand why you keep ignoring that. I have driven and owned all kinds of cars and i think i have pretty good feeling about how car should generally respond to throtthe. Sure, there are issues that can't be fixed, like when boost is building up and it starts pulling more and more with me keeping steady (or reducing) throttle. For me, it's not a problem since it's quite a big turbo, and doesn't do much when daily driving on traffic. Below 3000 rpm, it fells like stock setup.
Overall, you saying it's not possible and drivability is horrible. It's simply not true in my case. I don't know why that is. Maybe it's because it's heavy car, big turbo, cold environment or what.
I can agree, that for most people, project like this would never see road, but saying it's not possible to get it right enough is just false information.