After car dead tryied disconnect ecu and connect after few minutes and you tryied starts again? Should start. Problem seems me familiar. Check eeprom.
yes it appears to respond after being off power for short period of time than when the car is ran once it does not respond anymore.
Flash it in obd mode with any tool
i flashed with MMPS V18 originally over OBD and thats when the problem started. i recovered it with bench flashing but the problem still persists. the ECU is 032SL but it was flashed with a 032HS file. when i opened the 032SL ECU it smelled like it had an electronics failure so i put a real 032HS computer in the car that was known good but still same result.