Okay I saw from another post @fukenbroken that you have mentioned that 0 is enabled for CWFGRGA, so both values/bits are the same now

I will try this out when I can but what exactly should I do with frarawg, since it goes from 0 - 5 and there are all the same values, there is no 6th gear cell

EDIT: (I found the edit function xD)//
okay doesnt really work, I am screwed at this point. I got a a vlaue of 192 (C0) close to the adress that I have.
So its from stock values 00 0A C3 C3. I found out from another Thread that the value is 195 so C3.
Should I change the C3 C3 to 131 each ?
I wasnt really able to see the gears in bits, I am pretty much a noob in IDA but from what I found out  0 = enabled so
00 00 83 83 looks this about right ? The first bit is at 0x144FA.

You could just swap software versions to a factory 6 speed too... like the 032hn. that would fix the cruise control issues without changing any calibrations...

Comparing with simple hex editor is not very good idea to find maps. If you comparing in this way, i think your problem is wrong adresses. Try find maps with winols.