Upload your original, I'll check.

I flashed your bin to my spare ecu that normally contains the apx file, and it boots just fine so it is at least backwards compatible. It doesnt verify the memory layout, but just flash it as 400BB.

I flash it without bootmode with nefmoto flasher. Works okay. Your checksums are good. Your krkte is wrong for ajq injectors, should be something like 0.1024 (317cc)
Your mlhfm is wrong too, at 1v it should be 200 (standard offset)
Even if you can start the car on this flash, it would run very bad or trigger the fault lamp.

Do you have a damos for an ecu which is 180hp? for my car i need to change sooo many maps to be ok, apx have an another pressure ratio, the ignition system is not the same, injector, turbo, maf. nothing the same:)

And to make life easier I have made a mappack .kp and exported the hex to binary.
please verify with your own bin to be sure  

me7check v1.08 (c) mki, 06/2004-04/2011
Checking file 8l0906018j.bin (size=524288)
Reading Version Strings...
-> Bootrom Version = 05.12
-> EPK = 42/1/ME7.5/5/4019.01//F21e3/Dst05o/180200/
-> Contents of ECUID data table:
   - '0261206440'         (SSECUHN)
   - '1037354509'         (SSECUSN)
   - '8L0906018J  '       (VAG part number)
   - '0005'               (VAG sw number)
   - '1.8L R4/5VT     '   (engine id)
-> Contents of ECUID data table:
   - 'HW_MAN004'

-> No errors found. File is OK.   *********************

Looks like you're super lucky and I found your matching bin 

i think the lamfa map is not right, everywhere is 1.9922.

You can add fuel with lamfa, fkkvs or kflbts or whatever you prefer. There are multiple ways.
I would leave the maf maps to calibrate the maf, not fuel.