You should always bootmode flash if you are changing software (IE A6 4B0907551A to S4 8D0907551M).
Try that, it should come back to life.
We'll the ecu I got is the same part number as mine .....(4b0 907 551 t).....I'm using an L box (s4 flash) for my t box 2001 a6 tip .....
So I galletto flash, disconnect, go to car install, and car just cranks
Sorry if I misunderstood but what do you want me to try ?