ok !

I now understand what you know by lifted 

I have already done a immo off on these type of physical lifted chipped ecu, in my case its was APR chip.

the big black wire is your ground to the pin 24 ?

I will write you the exact procedure to bootmode the ecu

1-Ecu need to be power OFF
2-carefully apply ground at pin 24 ( the spot with the red circle is more safer, you don't want to short pin 24 to the pin aside) http://wiki.obdtuning.com/images/thumb/9/97/VAG_ME_7_Platine1.jpg/800px-VAG_ME_7_Platine1.jpg
3-hold the ground at pin24 in the same time you power on the ecu
4-leave the ground 5sec
5-remove the ground
6- done you normaly are in boot mode

Well this is just interesting. Now I get this: "Starting Boot_mode ... FAIL. <error=0x09>"

And when I get it, my cmd just freezes. I cant close it, not even through processes. I can minimize it and everything, but I just cant close it. Have to restart whole pc. Any ideas?