Any idea where and how I load the 2kb eeprom dump correctly to be able to find references to it?
There is no direct memory mapping to the eeprom.
There is a mirror in memory based on a custom configuration where certain pages get copied to certain areas.
There are also subroutines to read and write the eeprom directly.
I have no idea if this handling is different between e.g. ME7.4.6 and ME7.1, you will have to do some reversing to find out.
You can take a shortcut and dump the RAM on a running ECU, then you will have an idea to which area the eeprom is loaded and can find the pointer in the binary and references to it.