I had meant to ask if you had 512kb & narrow band, or 1024kb & wideband, had that wrong. I looked at the .xdf for the AF bin in the thread I linked to, it only had a few tables defined, i did not realize it was so incomplete.
Since you have 1024kb & wideband, there is a good chance that the later 8E0909518AK_368072 ECU .bin can be cross-flashed to your AF ECU hardware, the AK .bin has very complete xdf available. The stock AK .bin can be found at beginning of the community stage 1 1.8t thread at
http://nefariousmotorsports.com/forum/index.php?topic=6955.0The very complete XDF I would suggest using with this .bin is from Joshuafarwell on reply post #755 of same thread (page 51).
While I am fairly sure that it would work to cross-flash this bin to your ECU, do your own research to confirm that it will work, maybe others can chime in if this cross-flash is possible. I started with a 2003 A4 B6 w/ 1024kb & wideband, pretty sure it was an AF and the crossflash to AK .bin did work well for me.