If it wasn't for forums, sites etc nobody would get anywhere without experience from them...
Couldn't disagree more. Many of us have learned things on their own without others holding their hand.
The person you attacked in this thread is one of these people.
The site is for helping people out and not using user's free time.
The site is not for "helping people out". The site is a resource for everyone to contribute to.
You have contributed exactly nada to this site, and you keep asking for things.
And what do you think someone is doing when they are "helping" you? They are - in their own spare time opening your file, looking through it and so on.
How is this not using their free time? They do not get paid for doing this.
If you would be paying people to do this, it would be a different story.
I think you need to work on your attitude a little. You made a mistake by not posting the file. It was pointed out to you. Instead of realizing your mistake you snapped at the person who pointed it out. By chance that person is intimately familiar with the ECU in question. But I doubt you will be getting any help from him now.