Thank you for your answer,
I guess it would have been too easy
I am used with tuning but have been away from this world for a long time, also never programed any Audi/vw. I was used with working AEM EMS and tuned a few of big power 2jz cars.
I definitely have tons of reading to do or only to find someone I can pay to do it for me. correct me if I am wrong, but at this point a formal cable with program to be able to do this will probably cost me over $400.