Tried with the cluster in new mode and adapted mode and i still cant login, yes i use 09786.
What can cause this? 

So i found out that if i enter the wrong pin the cluster locks itself for 7 min, and restarts the 7 min each time the igniton is off until the right pin have been input    So i needed to turn the ignition on and wait 7 min before trying to log in

Finaly was able to log in 

Now i got another problem, either i try to adapt it from the ecu menu or the instrument menu, it tells me that (adaptation) (not ok) and on the instrument it says (key) (not ok)

Is this because off the 95040 immo off change? 
The immobilizer light isn't blinking, but the warning hazard lights is.

Tried to adapt keys (with new transponders) but it says error in the block when i type in new key count 

I swear umpteenth was a Scottish word.. You said naw the other day, too..

I am wondering what hardware did you use? The VCDS?
And where did you get the software? I cant seem to find it anywhere.... I have looked for VAG EEprom programmer

Thank you for the info. I have VCDS USB-HEX adapter I will try to read using it and post the results here.

Also does the VCDS adapter need to be in the "dumb" mode?

I have attempted to read the cluster EEPROM and no luck. Seems to me that the eeprom programmer will not talk to the USB-HEX adapter by Ross-Tech. The port in the programmer is currently set to USB. Do I need to install USB to COM1 port virtual device software and try again or I am missing something?

isn't the cable com? you have com 1 com2 and usb option in eeprom programer? right?