Listen, don't take any of this too personally.  The folks who put this forum together have a tremendous amount of time, intelligence, and probably a few tears invested into making this what it is.  I'm not going to accuse you of looking for hand-outs, but nothing is more irritating than the perceived notion of someone taking advantage of all your hard work.  And, as has been pointed out, the culture of this forum is definitely geared toward the DIY as opposed to purchasing or being given tuned files.

Here's a great way to get started:

1.)  READ AS MUCH AS YOU CAN!  Seriously, read everything you can find that seems remotely related to your project.  As pointed out, the S4wiki is fantastic.

2.)  Use Tony's latest tool to pull the BIN off your 018P ECU.  Make sure you use the latest version of the software and choose the 400BB layout.  It will think that's the incorrect memory layout, but it isn't.  If you use one of the 800 layouts, you will simply end up with a 1 meg file which contains your original 512 BIN as well as a duplicate directly following it.

3.)  Download a copy of the WinOLS test version (it's free).  Using this and the map pack I posted you will be able to view your BIN in an intelligent manner and get a better understanding of everything contained therein.  The biggest take away from this step will most certainly be realizing just how little you know about your ECU's contents.

Once you've completed these, then you can start asking intelligent questions about what you may wish to modify to better accommodate the modifications you have installed.  And, I can guarantee intelligent questions will undoubtedly receive more favorable responses.

Cheers and good luck.

Now that you have basically told half the useful members to suck your dick or effectively told them to fuck off I would wager a guess that you are kinda done here with getting free lunches. Regardless of how good you can blow-hard about yourself you clearly arent smart enough to know how to help yourself out with the first steps in order to obtain something you want in life. 

Where is your stock file?

Pro tip - create a new account, post stock file, make less statements about chips, racing and yourself.  Make more statements about your car, factual ones.

Post it up - I'm keen to have a look around it...

Be honest, you wanna look at it or you don't believe I could get it?

No on doubts you can get it, we are doubting the effort you will make because thus far you have failed to do much research.  You have also failed to follow normal social standards that people follow on this forum.

DUDE I don't give a shit if there are more impressive resumes lmao... that was 20 plus years ago and I merely said it because I do have a wealth of knowledge, every time one your you attack me I simply try pointing out I'm not just some kid... shit!

Abrasive! Oh ok... sorry, I didn't know as the new guy I have to sit here bent over, spread the cheeks and let you all have your way!

As the "new" guy I could have been told to go do something... AND I WOULD HAVE AND DID! But all the accusations... the bend over and take it... nope, not me! I tried nicely to explain, was attacked more, tried again, new guys attacked me, and it still hasn't stopped!

And resumes, dude... I don't care if someone here has a better one. Congrats to them. I speant my first 15 years in the automotive industry, and 15 since in the Technology field... (most of my years of expierence being in the Unix/Linux field) I am attacked and therefor tried to simply point out I have knowledge, and please stop!

I think I have explained myself plenty enough and honestly feel like attacks since doing so just shows character on the attackers behalf, not mine. But wtfe!

No one has attacked you.  Also your insecurity is showing, stop focusing on all the wrong things here.